Question 1

Where are you located, Mistress Danielle? 你在哪里?

Accepted Answer

Australia, Melbourne. 墨尔本澳大利亚.

Question 2

Signs that I am the Domme for you? 我是你的女王吗？

Accepted Answer

I have many example of my works in my gallery, please have a look and read about my "Interests and Specialties" and what I offer. I enjoy tailoring session to the individuals who like to explore their fetishes, kinks and other sensations. However, if you are looking No mercy, No consent. I am not your mistress.

I value effective communication, adaptability, creating a SANE & SAFE, fun environment for kinky play. I expect you to bring your positive energy and enthusiasm.

我的画廊里有很多我作品的例子，请看看并阅读我的 “兴趣和专长” 以及我提供的内容。我喜欢为那些喜欢探索自己的恋物癖、怪癖和其他感官刺激的人量身定制课程。然而，如果你在寻找非安全、非谈判、非同意。我不是你要找的人

我重视有效的沟通、适应能力、创造一个健康和安全的环境，为怪癖游戏创造有趣的环境。我期待你带来积极的能量和热情。

Question 3

What boundaries and limits are respected?

Accepted Answer

Its all about consent. All activity are agree upon and we can discuss any physical imitations and "No Go" activities.

Question 4

I am new to BDSM and have never served a Dominatrix before, how do I make an appointment with you? 我是 BDSM 的新手，以前从未服务过 Dominiatrix, 怎么和你预约呢？

Accepted Answer

Please text or write me an email, and follow my deposit process/instructions to make a booking. Essential information that must be included in your request:
 Name, age, type of session, BDSM interests, your experience (none is ok), date/time/length of the session.​I will not reply to your inquiry unless you have sufficient information for session planning. Also if you have not read "Interests & Specialities" and ask me for activities that I do not offer,  or try to waste my time, I will not respond.请求中必须包含的基本信息：姓名、年龄、会话类型、BDSM 兴趣、您的经验 (没有一项是可以的)、会话日期 / 时间 / 长度。​除非您有足够的信息来安排课程，否则我不会回复您的询问。此外，如果您还没有阅读 “兴趣与专长”, 并向我询问我无法提供的活动，或者试图浪费我的时间，我也不会回复。​

Question 5

How do I book an appointment and what is expected of me? 我該如何預約？我需要做些什麼？

Accepted Answer

Please fill in my application form, to collect essential information-  name, address, phone number, and email address.Specific Needs or Goals: What you want to achieve or the specific issue you need help resolving.Background/History: Medical history, or previous experiences.
請填寫我的申請表，以確保建立安全且相互尊重的匹配關係。
請填寫申請表，以便我收集必要信息，包括姓名、地址、電話號碼和電子郵件地址。    具體需求或目標：您希望實現的目標，或需要協助解決的具體問題。    背景/經歷：病史或過往相關經驗。

Question 6

How do I make a deposit? What is your Tribute? 我怎么预订？你的价格是多少？

Accepted Answer

Please email me with an introduction before you make a deposit. My Tribute is at the fair range for sessions with professional Dominatrixes in Melbourne  Australia. It is reflective of the handsome and discreet space I offer, the high caliber of equipments I use and maintain, my experience, skills. I take Beemit deposit for ALL bookings. - www.beemit.com.au You will have to download the Beem app, and have it already set up on your phone. My beemit account name - @DRubberNote that my tribute starts at $550 for 60mins. See my SESSION page for more details.  请在支付押金之前给我发邮件介绍一下。我的价格在澳大利亚墨尔本女王专业人士也一样。这反映了我提供的优雅的私人空间，我使用和维护的高端设备，健康与安全, 以及我的经验和技能。所有预订我都收 Beemit 订金。——www.beemit.com.au 你需要下载 Beem 应用程序，并且已经在手机上设置好。我的 Beemit 账号名称 ——@DRubber请注意，我的 “价格” 60 分钟起价 550 澳洲元。更多详情请访问我的 “Session” 页面。

Question 7

Do you travel for sessions? 你去其他城市吗？

Accepted Answer

Yes, I travel and tour within Australia and Internationally, I announce my furture tours on my website (TOURS), in my monthly Newsletter, also on twitter X and my socials. I also offer outcalls in Melbourne, I require 50% deposit.

是的，我在澳大利亚和国际上旅行和旅游。我在我的网站 (TOURS)、我的月度新闻通讯、推特 X 和我的社交媒体上宣布我的未来之旅。我还在墨尔本提供从酒店出来服务，需要 50% 的押金。

Question 8

Do you do full toilet training FTT, BS? 你是否进行全方位的马桶训练？

Accepted Answer

Yes.  I offer FTT/BS once day 10am/11am with a deposit.  I do not go on command. ALL BS session require deposit or prepaid and pre planned. 是的。我提供 FTT/BS 服务，每天上午 10:00/11:00 提供一次，并附带押金。所有 BS 会话都需要押金或预付款，并提前计划。

Question 9

Can I bring my own toys? (diapers, chastity, clothing, shoes, wigs etc.) 我能带上自己的玩具吗？

Accepted Answer

If they are items such as chastity,  diapers, clothing, yes please feel free to bring it if you have a preference for them! If you have a cock  ring/vibator/particular anal toy that you enjoy, bring them. Welcome to  bring outfits wigs shoes chasity that fits you. Recently I have some one bring a anal spreader that they wanted me to use on them. If you have some unique toys, please feel free to bring it to me, and we can test them on you. 如果是贞操、尿布、衣服之类的物品，欢迎随时带来！如果你有喜欢的阴茎环、振动器或特别的肛门玩具，请带来。欢迎带来适合你的服装、假发、鞋子和贞操。最近有人带来了一个肛门扩张器，他们希望我用在他们身上。如果你有一些独特的玩具，请随时带来给我，我们可以在你身上测试。

Question 10

I identify as LGBTIQA+ would you see me? 我的身份是 LGBTIQA+, 你愿意见我吗？

Accepted Answer

Yes, all gender expression welcome. 是的，欢迎各种性别表达。

Question 11

I texted emailed you, when will you respond? 我给你发了短信和邮件，你什么时候回复？

Accepted Answer

I try my best to reply in a timely matter, that could be 1 hour or 2-3 days, I receive a lot of texts/ emails every day. If you want my attention? Make it concise with all the information I require to ensure that it gets priority. 
Essential information that must be included in your request:
 Name, age, type of session, BDSM interests, your experience (none is ok), date/time/length of the session.
​
I will not reply to your inquiry unless you have sufficient information for session planning. Also if you have not read "Interests & Specialities" and ask me for activities that I do not offer,  or try to waste my time, I will not respond.
​我尽量及时回复，可能是 1 小时或 2-3 天，我每天都会收到大量短信 / 电子邮件。如果你想引起我的注意？请简洁地说明我所需要的所有信息，以确保它被优先考虑。
请求中必须包含的基本信息：
姓名、年龄、会话类型、BDSM 兴趣、您的经验 (没有一项是可以的)、会话日期 / 时间 / 长度。
​
除非您有足够的信息来安排课程，否则我不会回复您的询问。此外，如果您还没有阅读 “兴趣与专长”，并向我询问我无法提供的活动，或者试图浪费我的时间，我也不会回复。

Question 12

Is it a private Dungeon?这是个私人地牢/空间吗？

Accepted Answer

Yes, it is well heated in the winter and nice and cool in the summer. There is also a bathroom, clean towels and toiletries for you to use before and after the session. There is a cage and many other BDSM equipments to play with. 是的，冬天暖和舒适，夏天凉爽宜人。这里还有浴室、干净的毛巾和洗漱用品，供你在课程前后使用。还有一个笼子和许多其他 BDSM 设备可以玩耍。

Question 13

How much notice do you need to book a session? 预订一次会议需要多少通知？

Accepted Answer

24 to 48 hours in advance, though I take bookings up to 4 months ahead. Deposit essential. 提前 24 到 48 小时预订，不过我会提前 4 个月接受预订。必须提前预订。

Question 14

How shall I prepare before I visit you Mistress before our session?在我们会面之前，我该如何准备去拜访您这位女士呢？

Accepted Answer

You can have a shower at my studio. However, if you are wanting any substantial “anal play” then please do make sure you properly clean yourself before arriving. Other pre session care ideas - have a good meal, stay hydrated. 你可以在我的工作室洗个澡。然而，如果你想要任何实质性的 “肛交”, 请务必在到达之前彻底清洁自己。其他会前护理建议 —— 好好吃饭，保持水分充足。

Question 15

What if I can’t have any marks? I don't want to play with pain.....如果我不能留下任何痕迹怎么办？我不想玩弄疼痛......

Accepted Answer

I will always check whether you can have marks, or want marks. I do NOT mark any one without discussing it beforehand. I have had submissive ask me for hard cannings with NO marks, I always explain if this is the level of corpral you want, then you have to accept marks. Otherwise we can not play at this level, I am not a magician and like to set realistic expectations.  
Kink is a big marvellous realm with many sensation to play with, it is not all about pain. I can indulge you in bondage, tie and tease, sensory deprivation, edging, body and foot worship, GS, spitting, sissification, sensation play, and domestic servitude and much more. 我会一直检查你是否可以接受疤痕，或者想要疤痕。我不会在没有事先讨论的情况下给任何人疤痕。有人曾经顺从地要求我给他们打鞭笞/藤條  ，我总是解释说，如果这是你想要的重的下士水平，那么你就必须接受疤痕。否则我们就无法在这个水平上玩耍，我不是魔术师，无法承诺不可能的事。别担心BDSM 是一个巨大而奇妙的领域，有许多感觉可以玩耍，它并不全是关于疼痛的。我可以让你沉溺于束缚、领带和挑逗、感觉剥夺、边缘、身体和脚的崇拜、GS、吐痰、女性化、感觉游戏和家庭奴役等等。

Question 16

Will the session start straight away?会立即开始吗？

Accepted Answer

No, unless we have made previous arrangement and have negotiations previously, or we have played before.

Typically, we have a relaxed chat about your fetishes and kink in general, for us to  get to know each other before we begin. We have a chat about any medical concerns you may have, your safe word, your limits. What is the most important sensations for you in session, and how you would like to feel? You are welcome to have a shower before we begin. You will have the rest the tribute ready for me before session begins. 除非我们事先做好安排并进行了谈判，或者我们之前已经玩过。

通常，我们会轻松地聊聊你你想玩的游戏，这样我们在开始之前就能互相了解。我们会聊聊你可能有的任何医疗顾虑，你的安全词，你的极限。在玩过程中，对你来说最重要的感觉是什么，你想要什么样的感觉？在我们开始之前，你可以洗个澡。在玩开始之前，你会为我准备好付费。

Question 17

How tall are you? What size are you? What is you shoe size?你有多高？你的尺码是多少？你的鞋子尺码是多少？

Accepted Answer

I am 167cm in bare feet. 5 ft 9 in 3 inch heel, though in Pleaser platform high heel I am 6ft 1.
I am Aus size 8-10, EUR 38. Boots size 9, EUR 39. Stocking size - XL 
我赤脚身高 167 厘米。穿着3 英寸高跟鞋 那么5 英尺 9 英寸，尽管在穿高跟鞋时我的身高是 6 英尺 1 英寸。
我的尺码是 Aus 8-10,EUR 38。靴子尺码是 9,EUR 39。袜子尺码 ——XL

Question 18

Can I be your personal slave ? 我可以成为你的私人奴隶吗？

Accepted Answer

No, I have everything I need at the moment. 不，我现在已经拥有了我需要的一切。

Question 19

Will I be able to maintain my privacy before and during my meeting with you?我能否在与您见面之前和期间保持我的隐私？

Accepted Answer

Yes, my discretion is 100% assured  and I will never compromise your privacy. I post a lots of my play session on X,  it is part of my creative expression. I will always ask for the individuals consent before I post them. I do not wish to included anyone genitals, face or tattoo, I can blur your face out before I post them. I will not  approach you in public and I expect the same from you. I will not call or text, unless you have provided me with contact details, and expressly said that you were happy for me to use them to contact you.是的，我的谨慎是  100% 保证的，我永远不会侵犯你的隐私。我在 X  上发布了很多我的游戏会话，这是我创意表达的一部分。在发布之前，我总是会征求个人的同意。我不想包含任何人的生殖器、脸部或纹身，我可以在发布之前模糊你的脸。我不会在公共场合接近你，我希望你也不要这样做。我不会打电话或发短信，除非你已经向我提供了联系方式，并明确表示你很高兴我使用这些联系方式与你联系。

Question 20

Does the deposit go towards the total session tribute? 押金/存款后如何支付剩余款项？

Accepted Answer

Yes, you are to bring the remainder of the session tribute minus the deposit at the time of the session. 是的，在我们开始预订之前付款, 你需要带来剩余的费用，减去预订费/押金.

Question 21

What is your cancellation policy?您的取消政策是什么？

Accepted Answer

Cancellations within 24 hours of the date forfeit the deposit. If you cancel or reschedule with 3 days notice I will allow you to use 50% of your deposit at my discretion within 1 months of the original booking date. If you have made a deposit and no show, I keep you deposit as a gift. 在预订之日起 24 小时内取消，将取消押金。如果您取消或重新安排，并提前 3 天通知，我将允许您在最初预订之日起 1 个月内自行决定使用 50% 的押金。如果您已经付了押金但没有沟通展示，我将保留您的押金作为礼物。

Question 22

Do you accept couples? 你接受伴侣/情侣吗？

Accepted Answer

Yes, and all gender expressions welcome. 欢迎各种性别表达伴侣/情侣。

Question 23

What happens after our session? 结束后发生什么?

Accepted Answer

We have a debrief and some aftercare before you go home. Your homework are : eat a good meal, get a great sleep, know that you may have a sub drop, your body released a bunch of adrenaline, dopamine and oxytocin during the session and now you are depleted, so be gentle with yourself and stay away from toxic people.

For heavy players-  I will email you to check in.
You may also leave me a review testimonial of our time together.

结束后，在你回家之前，我们会谈话一些后续护理"之后关心"。帮助你处理感受和情绪, 你的护理后家作业是：好好吃一顿饭，好好睡一觉，要知道你可能会出现低情绪使沮丧，你的身体在玩训练期间释放了大量肾上腺素、多巴胺和催产素，现在你已经精疲力尽了，所以要温柔对待自己，远离那些烦人,需要为自己寻求安宁。

对于重度玩家 —— 我会给你发电子邮件问问情况。
你也可以给我留下一份关于我们在一起时光的评价。

Question 24

What is sub drop? 什么是 sub drop?

Accepted Answer

Some submissives can experience a "come-down" called sub drop after an intense BDSM scene with a Dominant, due to a rush of high/neurochemicals, its a chemical process in the brain that can effects your physical body, it may cause a major mood shift after an intense session.

The "drop" may impacts your emotional energy and motivation. I like to have "after care" conversations before and after sessions, speaking beforehand about what you may experience, will help your mistress better understand the situation, and can be prepared to help with aftercare.  Reconnecting after the session is important too, as these check-ins can make sure you are feeling stable.

一些玩家在与支配者经历激烈的 BDSM 场景后，可能会体验到一种被称为 “下降” 的感觉，这是由于大脑中的兴奋 / 神经化学物质激增造成的。这是一种能够影响身体的化学过程，可能会在激烈的会话后导致重大的情绪变化。

这种 “跌落” 可能会影响你的情绪能量和动力。我喜欢在玩前后进行 “治疗” 对话，事先讨论你可能会经历的情况，这将帮助你的女主人更好地理解情况，并可以准备好帮助进行治疗。治疗后重新建立联系也很重要，因为这些检查可以确保你感觉稳定。指的是者在经历强烈的 BDSM 场景后所体验到的情感 / 身体冲击，这是由于内啡肽 / 肾上腺素突然缺失引起的，导致疲劳、抑郁、情绪敏感或易怒；它强调了对适当的 “事后护理”(拥抱、安抚) 的迫切需求，以安全地从子空间过渡到现实。

Question 25

What is top drop? How can I ease your Top drop? 女王玩后感到疲惫,我该怎么帮忙？

Accepted Answer

Domme/top drop happens after a session where the dominant feels low in energy and down emotionally, just like you could. If I have had a busy day composing session, I exhausted my CHI, I am an introvert and need time to decompress, I replenish by resting and hugging my cats.

How can you help? Coffee and dark vegan chocolate is something I appreciate. Combine that with a gift card for a massage or  spa and I will be shinning like a sunflower again.

玩后当女王与支配者经历激烈的 BDSM 场景后，可能会体验到一种被称为 “下降” 的感觉，这是由于大脑中的兴奋 / 神经化学物质激增造成的。这是一种能够影响身体的化学过程，可能会在激烈的会话后导致重大的情绪变化。感到精力不足、情绪低落时，情绪就会降低, 如果我忙碌了一天的创作环节，我的智商就会耗尽。我是个内向的人，需要时间来缓解压力，我会通过休息和拥抱我的猫咪来补充能量。

你能帮忙吗？咖啡和黑素巧克力是我喜欢的东西。再加上一张按摩或水疗的礼品卡，我就又能像向日葵一样闪闪发光了。
​

Question 26

I can't text or call you anymore? 我不能再给你发短信或打电话了吗？

Accepted Answer

Blocking time wasters is the best part of my day. If you find that you are blocked, its because you have not show proper etiquette or manners, or have not follow my booking process, AND you are a repeat offender. 屏蔽浪费时间的人是我一天中最美好的部分。如果你发现自己被屏蔽了，那是因为你没有表现出适当的礼仪或礼貌，或者没有遵循我的预订流程，而且你是重复惯犯。

Question 27

How can I gift you something?我该怎么送你礼物呢？

Accepted Answer

My "gifts list" has been a working progress, for now please use beem app, @DRubber, I welcome cash, Its a gift of freedom to use as I see fit, it could be for a meal, or a new outfit or a show. Prezzee Smart eGift Card  welcome. 
https://www.prezzee.com.au

I also appreciate whiskey, chocolate, visa vouchers, lingerie vouchers, yoga and pilates vouchers. Spa vouchers. I welcome all gift of fetish toys, latex, bondage toys, whips, canes.

我的 “礼物清单” 一直在进行中，现在请使用 Beem app应用，@DRubber, 我欢迎现金，这是一份我认为合适的自由使用礼物，可以用于一顿饭，或者一件新衣服，或者一场表演。欢迎使用 Prezzee Smart eGift Card。
Https://www.prezzee.com.au

我也感谢威士忌、巧克力、礼品券、内衣券、瑜伽和普拉提券。水疗按摩券。我欢迎所有恋物癖玩具、乳胶、束缚玩具、鞭子、手杖的礼物。

Question 28

What to expect at a professional dungeon? 來到專業職業BDSM地牢會是如何?

Accepted Answer

Dungeon is a space that's dedicated to BDSM play or BDSM scenes, I like to keep my equipment clean and safe clear consent pratice. A beautiful clear space best suits my mood for consensual power exchange.  We start with negotiation. Activities are fully negotiated. I respect your Confidentiality. What  goes on in the playspace, stays in the playspace. You might notice that I do post on X or Bluesky, I always have consent for these social media posts.

Yes we focus on consent. You don’t have to do anything you don’t want. Saying ‘no’ is 100% okay, its okay if you change your mind about something. I respect your boundaries, and you respect mine. Not taking NO for an answer will get you kicked out. This is a safe space to express your desire. 
Be clean. Follow my lead. Listen to the rules. If you put yourself in dangerous situation you will permanently ban.
Be respectful & bring an open, curious mind. If you’re here to enjoy and explore BDSM, if you need a therapist, then go get one. My space is a drama free zone.
Your  judgments, rude questions and inappropriate touching aren’t welcome.

地牢係一個專為緊縛玩緊縛或者BDSM嘅空間，我鍾意保持我嘅裝備乾淨同安全, 清晰尋求你嘅同意先可以玩活動。一個靚嘅清晰空間最適合我共識權力交換嘅心情。我哋由談判開始。活動係由開始談判嘅。我尊重你嘅保密性。喺遊戲空間入面發生嘅嘢，都會留喺遊戲空間入面。你可能會留意到我確實會喺 X 或者 Bluesky 度發帖，我有個人同意呢啲放上網社交媒體。

我哋專注於同意。你唔使做任何你唔想做嘅嘢。講「NO」係100 % 冇問題嘅，如果你對某啲嘢改變主意，都冇問題。我尊重你嘅界限，你亦尊重我嘅界限。唔接受 NO 嘅答案會令你被踢走。呢個係一個安全嘅空間去表達你嘅慾望。 
    要乾淨。跟住我嘅指引。聽下啲規則。如果你將自己放入危險嘅情況你會被永久禁止返回。
    要尊重同埋帶嚟開放、好奇嘅心態。如果你嚟到呢度係想享受同探索緊縛，如果你需要一個治療師，噉就去搵個啦。我嘅空間係一個冇壞嘅情緒包袱嘅地帶。
    我哋唔歡迎你粗魯嘅問題,同埋不當嘅觸摸。

Question 29

Do you cater to specific fetish / fantasy?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Please read my areas of specialization and I am open your creative role play scenarios.

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